In the previous book I wrote I stated that ‘Time Out4u is aimed at 100% of the people 100% of the time. Time Out4u gives you the binoculars to see the hole and the shovel to fill it in.’ In this book on habits, it is the same: I try and point out the problem and also give the cure and answer. I am trying to give everyone an insight as to what is really going on in their lives and in doing so, help them gain a clear understanding of the nature of habits and make a better life for themselves in which being in control has to be the foundation. Most people’s lives are truly built on sand today and most people’s happiness reflects this fact. People’s peace and happiness are totally unstable and there is a very good reason for this.
We all have problems and flaws in our lives which can be traced back to ourselves. We are all forever eager to point the finger of blame at others for our unhappiness. Yet everyone lives their life in the quicksand of bad habits. It then becomes natural and easily for them to pull you down when you are around them if you are not careful.
Everyone is in trouble with bad habits now and carry these around with themselves unknowingly everywhere they go. The trick is to know what these bad habits actually are and to consciously avoid and ignore them in yourself and not give them fuel and permission to come out to play in your life. If you play with bad habits they will make you dirty.
If you want a truly successful life and a happy life, you will need to start doing the above and start to learn to be a master of your thinking and in complete control of your habits, and not a slave to them. If you can take back control of your own self you will then be able not to allow yourself to be influenced by other people’s bad habits. Most people have become very weak and allow themselves to be influenced greatly by other people’s defects and bad habits. Now is the time for you to take control and responsibility for yourself, your thinking, your habits, your actions and your life. You can do it.
